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February 2013 Inner Transformation

Sunday, February 3rd, 2013

Today is Super Bowl Sunday, when the competitive nature of Americans comes out even stronger than it does on Election Day! It’s a day we identify very strongly with things outside ourselves as “the competition.” What if, instead, from today forward, you chose to compete only with yourself – to each day be more of all you’ve been called to be, to be more present and more loving, more productive, creative, generous, and more connected to your Source than the day before. What do you think you could achieve if you competed WITH yourself instead of AGAINST the world?

Self competition, the desire to grow, is the theme of our lead story, which shares the power in one ordinary child’s intentions. Today is a coda to his already achieved dream.

This month, we are officially 20 years old.  Over the past two decades, we’ve watched the “manifesting” movement go mainstream and we’ve watched the economy rise and fall. And we’ve watched tens of thousands achieve their dreams. Whether you’re a newbie to my work or you’ve been here all along, I am grateful for your support, for sharing my work with others, and for buying my books, cds and dvds, and attending my events. You are why I choose to break through old boundaries and limiting beliefs and continue to do the work I do. As my thank you, all month long, EVERYTHING I OFFER IS 20% OFF, including the already tremendously discounted Financial Strategy Sessions you’ll find at the end of this issue (that special ends Feb. 15, though, so grab ‘em fast!) Use coupon code Y25K48SCP to get your 20% savings!

Before we dive in, on a somber note, I got word last month that a much-admired peaceworker, Chris Edwin Dahl of the Minnesota chapter of Parents of Murdered Children passed away. His Light shines on in all who were blessed to cross paths with him. You can experience his work by listening to the powerful Conflict Free Zone radio interview Chris did with me. I dedicate this month’s issue to my brother-in-peace. R.I.P. Chris. http://www.blogtalkradio.com/conflictfreezone/2012/07/03/conflict-free-zone-w-paula-langguth-ryan-ani-pathik-law.

In This Issue:

1) DO YOU SET INTENTIONS AS POWERFULLY AS THIS?
2) ARE CREDITONE AND FIRST PREMIER BANK PLATINUM CREDIT CARDS FOR BAD CREDIT A GOOD IDEA?
3) THAT’S WHAT I CALL A PROSPERITY CONSCIOUSNESS
4) UPCOMING TELESEMINARS, WEBINARS AND ON-LINE E-COURSES
5) FEATURED TRANSFORMATION TOOL: RIGHT AND PERFECT MATE
6) HOW MUCH OF YOUR HOLIDAY BILLS ARE LEFT TO PAY OFF?

1) DO YOU SET INTENTIONS AS POWERFULLY AS THIS?

What would you have told your 10-year old self about who you would be at age 17? Here’s what one 4th grade California student wrote in response to his teacher’s assignment:

“I think in 7 years I will be between 6 ft- to 6 ft 4 inches 140 pounds. I hope I go to a good college in football then go to the pros and play on the niners or the packers … (Read the rest of San Francisco 49’ers Quarterback Colin Kaepernick’s story at: https://www.facebook.com/notes/paula-langguth-ryan/do-you-set-intentions-as-powerfully-as-this/540670879298144)

2) ARE CREDITONE AND FIRST PREMIER BANK PLATINUM CREDIT CARDS FOR BAD CREDIT A GOOD IDEA?

Looking to rebuild your credit score, get new credit after bankruptcy or get access to credit when your credit is in the toilet? Folks with low credit scores or recent bankruptcies are getting deluged with pre-approved credit offers that seem too good to be true, according to folks who have sent me copies of the applications recently. So what’s the deal with these offers? A pre-approved unsecured credit card should do more than just report your credit scores and help you raise your FICO score. A good unsecured card should also make good financial sense. Too often the FEAR of having to rely ONLY on the income that comes in makes people jump at credit card offers that financially will put them in the poorhouse.

Let’s start with a review of CreditOne Bank. CreditOne bills itself as “one of America’s leading issuers of VISA Platinum credit cards.” That in itself tells us a lot about the current state of the US economy since they are one of the largest issuers of subprime credit cards.

Right now, CreditOne is mailing out offers of a “pre-approved credit line up to $1,500.” Here’s why I… (Read the rest of this story at: https://www.facebook.com/notes/paula-langguth-ryan/are-creditone-and-first-premier-bank-platinum-credit-cards-for-bad-credit-a-good/527019380663294)

3) THAT’S WHAT I CALL A PROSPERITY CONSCIOUSNESS
“Do all you can with what you have, in the time you have, in the place you are,
do all you can….”Do All You Can Lyrics, Devotion (www.devotionsings.com)

Two amazing stories I came across recently. First, did you hear about Curtis Jackson in Chicago? Not 50-Cent, but the OTHER Curtis Jackson? From December 2010 to May 2011 he plunked down over $9,000 to pay for a hotel room for a single mom and her 10-year old son after the woman lost her job as a banker and had her home foreclosed on. “I’m one of the richest men on earth, ‘cause I have God,” said Curtis. “Money is not my master.”

Here’s what’s unusual about this story. Curtis Jackson has no assets and has been homeless since 2004. The woman in the story? She used to stop and give him money and talk with him over the years, when she would see him panhandling. After losing her job and then her home, the woman and child were living in her truck for three months – until Child Services threatened to take the child away if she didn’t come up with something safer. Her social worker gave her money from her own pocket to get a hotel room for a few days and come up with a plan. That’s when Curtis Jackson stepped in. (Read the rest of this story at: http://www.paulalangguthryan.com/now-that-is-what-i-call-a-prosperity-consciousness/)

4) UPCOMING TELESEMINARS, WEBINARS AND ON-LINE E-COURSES

Here’s what’s on the schedule for this Spring (Remember to use coupon code Y25K48SCP to get your 20% discount if you register this month!):

* Gently Overcome Conflict Avoidance – in 7 Short Weeks (Starts in late March – details coming next week!) $47 (45 minutes a week, 15 minute Q&A and email support included.)
* Giving Thanks Tithing Mastery Course (Brand new 10 week teleseries starts April 9 2013!) – http://www.paulalangguthryan.com/art-of-tithing/ for details. $27 investment in your future – registration is already open at the link above!)
* Despite Appearances – How to Create What You Desire in Your Spiritual Home Regardless of Your Current Attendance or Income (FOR MINISTERS AND SPIRITUAL LEADERS: 1 hour teleseminar/webinar option Coming in May! No charge!)

You can follow me on Facebook at my public page: https://www.facebook.com/pages/Paula-Langguth-Ryan/161370323894870?ref=ts&fref=ts) Or you can follow my blogs at www.paulalangguthryan.com/blog

5) FEATURED TRANSFORMATION TOOL: RIGHT AND PERFECT MATE
It being February, your mind may be on relationships – the one you have or the one you’d like to have. Do you currently have a mate and want a better, more loving and communicative relationship? Or are you looking for your twin soul? My Right and Perfect Mate workshop (available on cd or downloadable mp3) can help you manifest, build or revitalize any relationship. Instantly download the audio files for $22.95 or order a CD and have it shipped to you. http://www.paulalangguthryan.com/shop/ideal-mate/ (Remember: use coupon code Y25K48SCP to get your 20% savings!)

6) HOW MUCH OF YOUR HOLIDAY BILLS ARE LEFT TO PAY OFF?
What amount of your holiday bills do you still have left to pay off? (Remember to include the “buy now/pay later” and “stretched out over 6-12 month credit offers!). I was just featured in a new article about 6 ways NOT to pay off credit card debt from the holidays. Enjoy: http://www.creditcards.com/credit-card-news/6-bad-ways-pay-holiday-debt-1267.php (Article includes great tips on better ways to pay off the debt….)

That’s all for this month! If you want to get a handle on your debts, or get some clarity about your finances, or create a plan for your financial future, consider a 30 minute Financial Strategy Session with me. Until February 15, we’re running a $99 special for 30 minutes and a $150 special for 60 minutes (which you can use in 6 minute increments!) To book yours: http://www.paulalangguthryan.com/coaching/ (Remember to use coupon code Y25K48SCP to get an extra 20% savings on your sessions!)

How effective is a 30 minute session? Here’s what one client said after hers last week: “Ten years ago, Paula Langguth Ryan did a workshop at my former B&B and Retreat Center, Harmony Oaks. Today she gave me financial peace of mind in only thirty minutes. Four years of recession struggle put to rest. God bless Paula Langguth Ryan!!! If you need help, check out her website for lots of free info AND get a thirty minute session with her!!! It’s priceless!”

Every time something “happens” in our life – an event, a physical ailment, anything at all, we have a choice… I choose to immediately look at how my thoughts and beliefs are creating it…and what my payoff might be for keeping it… I challenge you to do the same today!

Peace and prosperity,

Paula Langguth Ryan
To send a tithe or offering in support of our work, please visit: http://www.paulalangguthryan.com/art-of-tithing/support/

We are immensely grateful for YOU! Thanks for sharing this work with everyone you know!

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Back in the 1970’s a study was done with Jell-O to see what affect color (our perception) had on our sense of reality (the taste). Researchers took lemon Jell-O and made three batches. They added blue food coloring to one batch and red food coloring to the other. They had two groups of people taste the Jell-O – one group was blindfolded and one could see the Jell-O. The blindfolded group tended universally to state that all three batches were lemon. The group that could see the colors said the blue Jell-O tasted like blue raspberry for example, and the red Jell-O ran the gamut from strawberry and cherry to watermelon.

Why the difference? When we see something, we have a pre-formed judgment about it based on past experience. So when we are seeing circumstances in our lives unfolding, we tend to label them based on that past perception and NOT based on reality. The reality is: EVERYTHING in your life is unfolding in Divine Order, for an amazing reason that is ONLY designed for your highest good and the highest good of those around you.

If you struggle with that concept, and want a new way of looking at things so you’re drawing the good into your life, it may be time to start investing in changing your perception. Make today the day you become willing to see how things are conspiring for your highest good. Express gratitude for what is and ask to have the true perception revealed to you, free from past beliefs and stories. For help, consider a coaching session with me OR take advantage of the mentorship program I’m offering 5 lucky folks as my company’s 20th anniversary present. You could transform your life completely this year. Cost is $500/month or $5000 up front and for 1 year you receive unlimited email support and access, 1 weekly one-on-one call with me and access to all my published resources, videos, audios and programs. To see if we’re a good fit, drop me an email at paula@paulalangguthryan.com and tell me what 5 most pressing areas you’d like to transform in your life this year and where you’re feeling stuck.

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Financial stress really CAN kill you, as the prestigious medical journal The Lancet points out this month. A report released this week shows that nearly 1500 more people killed themselves annually in 2008, 2009 and 2010, than in the years BEFORE the recession. And it’s strongly tied to the unemployment rate, as the study discovered. Every time unemployment rises by 1%, suicide rates in the United States rise by 1%.

It used to be that money, sex, politics and religion were big taboo topics in “polite society.” Now, thanks to social media, like Facebook and Twitter, folks are sharing their thoughts on sex, politics and religion with abandon. But we still don’t talk about money. The last taboo. Why? Because we think “money” means something about us. We think what we earn or have makes us more lovable, better providers, more powerful, and more successful. So what happens when the money stops coming in? What happens when you lose a job, get laid off temporarily, experience a loss of income due to death, divorce or a health challenge? What happens when your credit score drops so low you become “credit-unworthy”? Or when your credit card balances get so big you can no longer juggle one bill to pay another? What happens when your home gets foreclosed on, your bills are all past due and your car gets repossessed? Or what happens when even the THREAT of this is happening in your life?

It takes a psychological toll because of what we think it means. And when we get depressed about our finances, since it’s not a topic we’re willing to talk about with others, we wind up talking to ourselves. And often one option we see is the final exit door of suicide. It pops into our minds how easy it would be to just take a turn to fast, or accidentally take too much of our medicine, or leave the car running while we’re in the closed garage answering our smartphone emails.

If you find yourself having even the most fleeting thoughts about checking out because of your finances, do me a favor first. Download this free report on How to Know if It’s Time to File Bankruptcy. It may just give you the breathing room you need to get through this financial challenge. You’re not alone. MILLIONS in the United States are going through this same situation. And even if you’re not a good candidate for bankruptcy, there are strategies you can come up with that can help you put together a plan to repay your creditors in a way that works for YOU first, rather than for THEM first. A session with me could help you gain some valuable insight, get clarity and put the plan into motion. And until November 15, you can get an entire hour’s worth of my time for $125 (and you can use it in 6, 15 or 30 minute segments if we work out a plan real quick for you!).

I KNOW that it seems like money is the be all and end all because of how we’ve intertwined our lives with our “stuff” – but it truly isn’t. Money is energy. It doesn’t mean anything about you – except for whatever meaning you’re giving it. Financial changes can be the start of something really new and exciting in your life if you give it room to grow rather than seeing it as something you’ve “lost.” Promise me you’ll reach out to me or someone else with financial knowledge who can help you set up a strategy to get out from under whatever financial mountain you find yourself buried in. Financial challenges are temporary. Suicide is a permanent solution to that temporary problem. Think about your 3 favorite moments in your life – and what would it feel like if you never got to experience moments like that ever again. That’s what happens if you decide to off yourself instead of giving yourself relief from your debts and creditors.

Do you really want to give your creditors that kind of life and death power over you? Bottom line: you kill yourself, and your creditors win – while you, your family and friends all lose. Do you want to choose to be their victim? Or do you want to make a choice to empower yourself and transform this situation so you can easily  move into a space where you’re at peace, with clarity and a sense of direction on how to move forward to create a financially secure future for yourself and your family. The choice is up to you. As I tell my 5-year old son “make choices that will help you succeed at being happy and healthy!” Get the free report; consider talking with me or another calm person who has some distance from your situation. Take back control of your finances, your life and your self-confidence. It’s easier than you think.

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Why I’m an early riser

Friday, March 23rd, 2012

Most of my friends know that I’m, well, an early riser. That is probably putting it mildly. I like to bolt out of bed well before the crack of dawn. Usually sometime between 3am and 5am my eyes pop open. I used to fight it, cover my head with the pillow, toss and turn and try to fall back asleep. But one day, I decided not to even try fighting it. Resistance is futile and all that. So I soundlessly slipped out of bed. That morning, my perspective on life changed forever.

There is something profoundly sacred about the dark stillness of those early hours. The ritual of turning on some soft instrumental music, brewing my espresso, mindfully munching a handful of raw almonds. My movements are serene, unhurried, peace-filled. Every cell of my body is connecting with Spirit, opening with willingness to the possibilities that may be unfolding that day, and – most importantly – opening to what I’m being called to BE, DO or EXPERIENCE in this day. Sometimes, I don’t even see the day dawning as the light rises around me. Until suddenly I realize morning has broken. Always, though, I feel it. I feel the awakening of the day coursing through my veins as I move toward what it is I desire to create in my life, in every area. I sit, still, looking through my vision board book, reading my Personal Plan for the year, or simply outlining on paper my goals.

I know that rising “in the middle of the night” as some loved ones have referred to my habit isn’t for everyone. I also know that if you choose to rise just 10 minutes earlier, you can profoundly change the course of your life and the level of prosperity in your life.

Leo Babauta (zenhabits.net) wrote one of my favorite reasons for getting up early….Goal time. Here’s what he had to say about this topic:

“Got goals? Well, you should. And there’s no better time to review them and plan for them and do your goal tasks than first thing. You should have one goal that you want to accomplish this week. And every morning, you should decide what one thing you can do today to move yourself further towards that goal. And then, if possible, do that first thing in the morning.”

Start there, in that singular place. One goal. Ten minutes. Rise up…

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A friend of mine is going through a divorce. It’s not always a pretty process. In fact, the feelings of both parties are bouncing wildly from one end of the emotional spectrum to the other. Anger, sadness, love, grief. It’s all there. Sometimes all in a single sentence in fact. The desire to lash out swirls with the desire to extend love and move through the transition with ease and grace. As in most high-conflict situations, there are opportunities in each moment to come from a place of love or come from a place of fear. It’s a fine line and one that often seems hard to balance, especially when our own buttons get pushed. One thing that I’ve found makes it easier to stand in love even in the midst of a high conflict situation is to look at the entire situation from a child’s perspective.

One of my favorite books as a child was Pippi Longstocking by Astrid Lindgren. In 1978, Astrid accepted a peace prize in Germany and in her acceptance speech, she shared this story:

“When I was about twenty years old, I met an old pastor’s wife who told me that when she was young and had her first child, she didn’t believe in striking children, although spanking kids with a switch pulled from a tree was standard punishment at the time.

“But one day when her son was four or five, he did something that she felt warranted a spanking–the first in his life. And she told him he would have to go outside and find a switch for her to hit him with. The boy was gone a long time. And when he came back in, he was crying.

“He said to her, ‘Mama, I couldn’t find a switch, but here’s a rock you can throw at me.’ All of the sudden a mother understood how the situation felt from the child’s point of view: that if my mother wants to hurt me, it makes no difference what she does it with; she might as well do it with a stone.

“The mother took the boy onto her lap and they both cried. Then she laid the rock on a shelf in the kitchen to remind herself forever: never violence.”

Violence – whether in thought, word or deed – breaks our spirits. We have a choice in each and every moment. Do we want to break someone’s spirit or enrich someone’s spirit? Our ego would chose the former. Today, I encourage you to let your Spirit make the choice instead.

Many thanks to Attachment Parenting International for bringing Astrid’s speech to my attention.

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