Do you avoid conflict at all costs?
Can’t stand arguments?
Feel unable to stand up for yourself and ask for what you want or need?
Hate to negotiate?
Don’t like hurting other people’s feelings so you abandon your own instead?
Does the SMALLEST hint of a conflict make you sweat, become anxious, or cause you to lash out in an extreme way?
Feel powerless, vulnerable, and unable to speak up for yourself at SOME point nearly every day?
If ANY of these describe you, there’s a good chance that you are a Conflict Avoider. That’s not necessarily a bad thing. But if it’s causing you stress, or getting in the way of you accomplishing what you desire, I’ve got good news for you. Over the past 20 years as a mediator, I’ve developed an easy, gentle and simple seven step strategy to help you transform yourself from someone who avoids conflict into someone who doesn’t even notice conflict. Imagine effortlessly moving through what used to be hard conversations! Imagine – never again getting flushed, flustered or frozen when faced with a tough conversation or situation.
When I do this training for a corporation, it costs them $5,000 – but it’s not even going to cost you $50. I’m making this course completely affordable for you and everyone else for one simple reason: I want world peace. And that peace starts with everyone being willing to speak their microscopic truth. And we can’t do THAT unless we are comfortable having conversations with each other – and this 7 week telecourse accomplishes this goal.
Create immense self-confidence around conflict without increasing your stress level
Most other conflict avoidance courses make you do all sorts of “uncomfortable” exercises designed to get you to “break through” those parts of you that have challenges with conflict. I find that counter-productive. How can INCREASING your stress around conflict situations make you MORE peaceful and self-confident? It can’t. The only thing that CAN HELP YOU OVERCOME CONFLICT AVOIDANCE is to heal the part of you that believes you’re not safe and loved. That old “fight or flight” mechanism. It served you well in the past in many ways. And NOW is the time to transform it into a useful tool for creating clear, focused communication that addresses your needs, concerns and fears (and those of the other party) in a positive, productive way.
Is learning how to be comfortable around conflict WORTH 7 hours of your time and less than $6.75/hour?
I can’t even get a babysitter for my son for less than $13 an hour. And for 7 weeks, for 45 minutes a week (plus an optional 20 minute Q&A if you decide to stick around afterward!), I’m going to give you everything I’ve got in my toolbox to help you:
- Dissolve the fears that come up around conflict with gentleness and WITHOUT confrontation
- Speak your truth with loving kindness in ways that create what you desire in your life
- Eliminate dis-ease and anxiety and frustration around conversations where you or others are in conflict
- Explore what you think conflict means about you, or what conflict means will happen, and move beyond that belief
- Dissolve your conflict-avoiding beliefs and discover how to harness opportunities to communicate, clarify and create/co-create.
You will benefit greatly from this profound systematic approach which has been perfected for the last 20 years.
Seems like everyone is mad about everything these days. We avoid dealing with it, or we avoid dealing with the underlying issues around it.
So we fight against instead of creating with….I’m about to teach you a better, more productive way of communicating!
In this class, you get to explore what you think conflict means about you, or what conflict means will happen, and move beyond that. Dissolve those beliefs once and for all. Once you do, instead of seeing conflict peering at you, ALL you will see is an opportunity to cooperate and help everyone achieve what they desire.
Each class runs 45 minutes, on Tuesday nights, from 5:30pm MT to 6:15pm MT. The classes are recorded so you can refer back to them whenever you desire. Then there’s another 20 minutes available each week for Q&A in case you have specific conflicts you want to instantly dissolve – we’ll talk them through right then and there on the line. $47 is the cost for the entire 7 week program. (No, that’s NOT a typo. It truly is less than $50 for 7 weeks!) So now you have a choice – continue to avoid conflict and avoid having a full, peaceful, loving, ecstatic life, or chose to move into a space where you harness conflict situations for the greatest good, with ease and peace and joy. What’s your choice?
Join each week’s class live or listen in later
You’ll get the biggest benefit if you can join each week’s teleclass live. But you may also want to refer back to something we said OR you may miss a class – no worries. Each class is recorded and you have unlimited access to those recordings for your personal use.
Classes run Tuesdays from 5:30pm -6:15pm MT; plus additional 20 minute Q&A if you want to join us.
March 26 – May 7.
Register NOW. Just click here
Once you’re registered, you’ll instantly receive the call in instructions for attending the class. Mark your calendar now for Tuesday nights, 5:30pm MT (7:30pm ET)!